How it all started

It was years ago that my husband brought up spanking, he wanted to spank me. I was a little surprised but we tried it anyway. He spanked me, then I spanked him. They were very light playful spankings, we didn’t really know what we were doing.

I wasn’t to thrilled about being spanked. He however kinda liked it and wanted more. I really didn’t care for it at first, I would spank him but only because he asked me and I would do anything for him even if I really didn’t think it would be a positive thing in our relationship.

I would like to think that I’m open minded and non judgmental but because of past experiences with abuse I couldn’t wrap my head around it at first. I always thought of spanking as abuse, so hearing my husband tell me about his interest in spanking kinda shocked me. Due to my feelings about spanking I didn’t really understand why my husband liked it so much. I didn’t understand why for a long time.

After years of long conversations and spankings, I started to understand that the spanking that he wanted was coming from a loving, caring and nurturing place.

I started reading and learning about spanking and being more dominant. At the time in my life wasn’t feeling very confident about myself and I got more and more into spanking mostly because of the confidence I got and while I spanked him. He was going to listen to me which was something I wasn’t getting from other parts of our relationship.

Today I feel that spanking has helped our relationship. I have become more confident in my life and feel better about myself since I started taking spanking more seriously.


5 thoughts on “How it all started

  1. Love your blog. This is sort of how my wife and I got started as well. Thank you for sharing!


  2. Awesome.

    Thanks so much for sharing! You sound so much like my wife when I first asked her to spank me. She just didn’t get it and I still don’t think she really does but she at least spanks me long enough and hard enough to cause me some distress now — she used to be too afraid of hurting me!

    Was that early spanking the only one you received from your husband? If you would let him would he still want to spank you or does he just enjoy being spanked now?

    I like being spanked and spanking my wife equally but she prefers to be the spanker so most of the time I am the one getting the paddle. I love your DWC paddle – too bad they don’t see them any more! We have the Marwood paddle and an acrylic paddle from cane-iac that we really enjoy. The acrylic is especially fun because you can see right through. My wife and I both enjoy watching the others butt flatten out as the paddle strikes.

    Thanks again for taking the time to set up and run this site – I love it!

  3. What a beautiful moving recount of your initial spanking trials so awesome. It is nice to read that getting our mind around the love of spankings is not easy. I still wonder sometimes but then I realize how wonderful spankings are. Thanks for sharing.

    There is am amazing book out and soon in paperback written by Jillian Keenan Sex with Shakespeare. An amazing recount of her transition into spanking. It is beautifully written.

    Again thank you for sharing. I love your blog and videos you are one awesome spanker.


  4. It is such a nice story, you are so loving and generous for all the spankings and the discipline that you provide to your husband, he is a lucky man,
    thanks for the blog , and for sharing everything .

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