A Quick Morning Spanking

Had some fun this morning when my husband bent over the kitchen chair. I started giving him a hand spanking then quickly found myself looking for something better, I really wanted my wooden hair brush. But I couldn’t find it so I decided to search around the kitchen. I found a few things..a plastic spatula, icing spatula and a plastic hair brush.


The spatula that I use for flipping hamburgers had a good whack to it although the bend in it doesn’t really give you a good angle to deliver a nice smack it still served it’s purpose. Now the icing spatula is longer like a ruler the outside is made of silicone and the inside feels like a piece of metal not sure what it is but it has a very hard smack that will leave welts. Last I found  a  pink plastic hairbrush.  Out of the three the icing spatula had him wimpering and the plastic hairbrush kinda surprised me I may use that in a video, I like the all the sounds he makes with each smack..ouch

Spanking & Music

I’m a huge fan of all types of music it has helped get me through some tough times and made some good times even better. So when I found this music video called “Hear My Name” a song by Armand Van Helden it brought a smile and confused look to my face when I first watched it.
The video starts of with this guys outside of a Manson with a paper that says 4:30 on it. Inside the place shows two women sitting on chairs awaiting his arrival in a room. Showing the man her lap she called him over and starts spanking his clothed bottom. Then the maid walks in the room and is called over by the other women and she starts spanking the maid. As the video goes on more and more people are lining up to get spanked. It’s was amazing they just kept spanking ass after ass at one point it showed the women in the video (Mary Louise Platt and Nicole Lambardi) spanking two or three bottoms at a time. I was impressed by the video, great idea made me jealous, very hot sexy video.

I was kinda unsure of writing my thoughts on this music video because of the lyrics and how I found them hard to understand and couldn’t make sense of the meaning behind the words. It would be a dream come true if I could recreate this video. I’d change the lyrics a little and have more realistic and harder spankings.

Song Lyrics

You’ve been through it all
Nothing has to change
Take it all – the pain in me
But what if that’s all there is?
A-a-a-all the way and we would
A-a-a-all the way and we would
Are you all there is in my heart
It does believe that you are – just my age
Here my mind is empty
Oh nobody comes away
Here time is ending
Here I’m gonna stay
Hear my name
Doesn’t anybody want to play
Hear my name
Can anybody find a way
Say my name now baby
Loud and clear
Say my name now baby
Say it so I can hear your voice
All I want to do is get next to you
All I want to do is get next to you
All I want to do is get next to you
Here my mind is empty
Oh nobody…

Bent Over The Dining Room Table

My husband quickly realized his ass was going to get more attention then his cock. After a warm up with my bare hand, I got out my leather paddle (which I don’t have any more, I needed to throw it away due to a stain, of blood….oops.) I gave a smack to both cheeks and got his bottom to turn a nice shade of pink, I loved how each smack with the leather paddle made him twitch and wiggle made me wanna keep going.

But I decided he had enough with that and was ready for what he likes to call his favorite, the belt. I love getting a reaction out of him and the belt gives me that. Unfortunately the old belt in this video was difficult to hold and swing because it had this metal buckle, that I would have to wrap around my hand for a better grip and length. Luckily I have upgraded my collection and now have a better selection of belts.

After a few swats with the belt was ready to use the short cane. He has always mentioned a cane so we decided on this small one to test it out, I thought he took it well but I might have taking it easy on him.

Hairbrush Spanked in the Bedroom

He was due for a maintenance spanking, I warned him earlier that day I’d be giving him a spanking with my hairbrush, I reminded him to bring it with him. I instructed him to remove his pants and get over my lap. I started with a quick warm up with my hand. Had a talk about how his behaviour has been the last few days then asked him to hand me the hairbrush.

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Are ping pong paddles a good implement for a spanking?

Unfortunately this particular one did not seem to hold up.

He thought he was being cute by giving my ass a slap when I wasn’t expecting it. After the third random smack on my bottom which really is annoying most times. I pulled him in the room locked it.

Thought perfect time to use this ping pong paddle I picked up awhile ago.I always wanted to try one since seeing a video with one being used. I swatted his bare bottom ten times with both sides of the paddle. Continuing to smack his bare bottom harder and harder each time. 

I stop counting always forget anyways. I like to go with how it feels and most times it’s as if he could take what ever I give him. His ass was nice and pink after a quick five minute spanking. I had him kneel on the floor as I stood over his back and swung with more force after the fourth smack the handle on the paddle snapped. 

How it all started

It was years ago that my husband brought up spanking, he wanted to spank me. I was a little surprised but we tried it anyway. He spanked me, then I spanked him. They were very light playful spankings, we didn’t really know what we were doing.

I wasn’t to thrilled about being spanked. He however kinda liked it and wanted more. I really didn’t care for it at first, I would spank him but only because he asked me and I would do anything for him even if I really didn’t think it would be a positive thing in our relationship.

I would like to think that I’m open minded and non judgmental but because of past experiences with abuse I couldn’t wrap my head around it at first. I always thought of spanking as abuse, so hearing my husband tell me about his interest in spanking kinda shocked me. Due to my feelings about spanking I didn’t really understand why my husband liked it so much. I didn’t understand why for a long time.

After years of long conversations and spankings, I started to understand that the spanking that he wanted was coming from a loving, caring and nurturing place.

I started reading and learning about spanking and being more dominant. At the time in my life wasn’t feeling very confident about myself and I got more and more into spanking mostly because of the confidence I got and while I spanked him. He was going to listen to me which was something I wasn’t getting from other parts of our relationship.

Today I feel that spanking has helped our relationship. I have become more confident in my life and feel better about myself since I started taking spanking more seriously.

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Happy Valentine’s Day! Now Bend Over

 

 

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I decided to give hubby a light fun Valentine’s Day spanking, dressed in a black dress and a pair of red thigh highs, then I spread cute hearts and rose petals all over the bed.

Sitting on the bed waiting, I could tell he was excited, I pulled him over my lap and started smacking his boxer cover bottom lightly and gradually smacking harder.

I gave him a few smacks on each side as I pulled his boxers out of the way, then I just pulled them down, spanking him as nicely as I thought possible for me anyway.

Next I tied his wrist together with this cute valentines neck tie, and spanked him until his cute bum was a really nice shade of pink. I could tell that he was enjoying it.

I made him lay face down on the bed and sat on his back while I spanked him a little bit harder, just enough to make him squirm but I also wanted his cock to stay hard. His bottom was very pink by now.

I untied his wrists and had him turn over, and decided to have a lil fun of my own, I used the neck tie to wrap around his cock and balls.

I got on top of him, with my thong covered pussy in his face and played with his tied up cock. Pulling and tugging at the tie, teasing him I slowly took the tie off his pulsating cock and lightly whipped his cock with it.

I finally removed my thong got back on top of him and had him lick my pussy while I stroked his cock till we both cummed.

Happy Valentine’s

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Surprise! Hand Spanking

Earlier today I surprised hubby by taking him over my lap for a spanking. He’s been kinda annoying me the last few days, not coming to bed at night and sleeping in every morning.

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I had him take his pants off and told him to come over. I grabbed his arm pulled him over my lap.

Started giving him some slow firm smacks with his boxers on for a few minutes,

I pulled one side of his boxers up to see how red his ass would be, it was a nice pink. I gave him a few smacks while pulling his boxers up.

I then made him stand up and remove his boxers and return back over my lap so I could finish his spanking.

I was really hoping my hairbrush was near by, my hand hurt a bit after awhile. I’ll have to make sure I remember to use it next time.